The Role of Urethra in Female Orgasm
By Ernest Gräfenberg, M.D.
New York
International Journal of Sexology - 1950
A rather high percentage of women do not reach
the climax in sexual intercourse. The frigidity figures of different
authors vary from 10-80 per cent and come closer to the statistics
of older sexologists. Adler (Berlin) came to the conclusion that 80
per cent of women did not reach the sexual climax. Elkan guessed that
50 per cent suffered from frigidity, while Kinsey found it to be 75
per cent. Hardenberg's figures have a very wide range from 10 to 75
per cent.
Many of these statistics cannot be compared, since
the various authors use different criteria. Edmund Bergler sees
the condition of eupareunia only in vaginal orgasm and so his frigidity
figures are naturally much higher than those based on any kind of
sexual satisfaction. The restriction to the vaginal orgasm, however,
does not give the true picture of female sexuality.
Lack of orgasm and frigidity are not identical.
Frigid women can enjoy orgasm. The lesbian is frigid in her relations
to a heterosexual partner, but is completely satisfied by homosexual
loveplays. A deficient orgasm need not always be associated with
frigidity. Numerous women have satisfactory enjoyment in normal
heterosexual intercourse, even if they do not reach the orgasm.
Genuine frigidity should be spoken of only if there is no response
to any partner and in all situations. A woman with only clitoris
orgasm is not frigid and sometimes is even more active sexually,
because she is hunting for a male partner who would help her to
achieve the fulfillment of her erotic dreams and desires.
Although female erotism has been discussed for
many centuries or even thousands of years, the problems of female
satisfaction are not yet solved. Even though female doctors (Helena
Wright) participate in these discussions nowadays, "the eternal
woman" is still under discussion. The solution of the problem would
be better furthered, if the sexologists know exactly what they are
talking about.
The criteria for sexual satisfaction have first
to be fixed before we make comparisons. Numerous "frigid" women
enjoy thoroughly all the different phases of "necking." Should we
count out all variations of sex practices which result in complete
orgasm though not vaginal orgasm?
Innumerable erotogenic spots are distributed
all over the body, from where sexual satisfaction can be elicited;
these are so many that we can almost say that there is no part of
the female body which does not give sexual response, the partner
has only to find the erotogenic zones.
It is not frigidity, if the wife does not reach
orgasm in intercourse with her husband, but finds it in sexual relations
with another partner. One of my patients, who married early a very
much older, rich man and had two children, pestered me persistently
with questions as to why she could not experience an orgasm. I explained
that physically there was nothing wrong with her. Bored by the repeated
discussions with her, I finally asked her, if she had tried sex
relations with another male partner. No, was the answer and reflectively
she left my office. The next day in the middle of the night, I was
awakened by a telephone call and a familiar voice who did not give
her name asked: "Doctor are you there? You are right," and hung
up the receiver with a bang! I never had to answer any further sexual
questions from her.
In spite of abundant literature dealing
with female orgasm,
our knowledge of the mechanism and the localisation of the final
climax is insufficient. Different organs and their stimulation work
as a trigger and cause an increase of the sexual "potential" up
to the level where the orgasm goes off. One could suppose
that the clitoris alone is involved in causing excitation, since
this organ is an erotic center even before puberty, though it is
aided by other erotogenic zones.
Inflammations of the clitoris, especially below
the prepuce, can make it so hypersensitive that it loses its ability
to produce orgasm. Such changes occur by masturbation in elderly
women after the menopause when the external genitals shrink and
become affected by hypoesterogenism. The erotogenic power of the
clitoris passes then mostly to the neighborhood of the genital organs,
to the inside of the small labia or to the pubic region of the abdomen.
The entrance to the rectum can also become an erotogenic center,
not for anal intercourse, but for stimulation with the finger. In
one of my patients vaginal orgasm was lost completely, but orgasm
could be achieved with a finger in the anus and the penis in the
vagina.
Sometimes the breasts help the clitoris in producing
erotization. Kissing the nipples, touching them with the penis,
or inserting the penis between the two breasts lead to an orgasm.
Cunnilingus or even insertion of the penis in the external orifice
of the ear are other illustrations of the variability of the erotogenic
zones in females.
Some investigators of female sex behavior believe
that most women cannot experience vaginal orgasm, because there
are no nerves in the vaginal wall. In contrast to this statement
by Kinsey, Hardenberg mentions that nerves have been demonstrated
only inside the vagina in the anterior wall, proximate to the base
of the clitoris. This I can confirm by my own experience of numerous
women. An erotic zone always could be demonstrated on the
anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra.
Even when there was a good response in the entire vagina, this particular
area was more easily stimulated by the finger than the other areas
of the vagina. Women tested this way always knew when the finger
slipped from the urethra by the impairment of their sexual stimulation.
During orgasm this area is pressed downwards against the finger
like a small cystocele protruding into the vaginal canal. It looked
as if the erotogenic part of the anterior vaginal wall tried to
bring itself in closest contact with the finger. It could be found
in all women, far more frequently than the spastic contractions
of the levator muscles of the pelvic floor which are described as
objective symptoms of the female orgasm
by Levine. After the orgasm was achieved a complete relaxation of
the anterior vaginal wall sets in.
Erotogenic zones in the female urethra are sometimes
the cause of urethral onanism. I have seen two girls who had stimulated
themselves with hair pins in their urethra. The blunt part of the
old fashioned hair pin was introduced into the urethra and moved
forwards and backwards. During the ecstasy of the orgasm the girls
lost control of the pin which went into the bladder. Both girls
felt ashamed and tried to hide the incident from their mothers until
a huge bladder stone had developed around the pin as centre. One
stone was removed by supra-pubic, and the other by vaginal, cystotomy.
A third hair pin entered the bladder and before the bladder was
inflamed, it was angled out via the urethra. Since the old hairpins
are no more in use, pencils are used for urethral onanism. They
are longer than the hairpins and do not glide into the bladder so
easily, though they cause a painful urethritis. Urethral onanism
may happen in men as well. I saw a patient with a rifle bullet which
glided into his bladder. He had played with it while he was lonesome
on duty on New Years Eve.
Analogous to the male urethra, the female
urethra also seems to be surrounded by erectile tissues like the
corpora cavernosa. In the course of sexual stimulation, the female
urethra begins to enlarge and can be felt easily. It swells out
greatly at the end of orgasm. The most stimulating part is located
at the posterior urethra, where it arises from the neck of the bladder.
Sometimes patients of Birth Control clinics complain
that their sexual feelings were impaired by the diaphragm pessary.
In such cases the orgastic capacity was restored by the use of the
plastic cervical cap, which does not cover the erotogenic zone of
the anterior vaginal wall. Such complaints occurred more frequently
in Europe than here in the U. S. A., and was one of the reasons
for giving preference to the cervical cap over the diaphragm pessary.
Frigidity after hysterectomy may happen, if the
erotogenic zone of the anterior vaginal wall was removed at the
time of the operation. The vaginal wall is preserved best by the
abdominal subtotal hysterectomy, less by the total hysterectomy
and least by vaginal hysterectomy when always large parts of the
vagina are removed. That is the cause of vaginal frigidity after
vaginal hysterectomy observed by LeMon Clark.
The uterus or the cervix uteri takes no part in
producing orgasm, even though Havelock Ellis speaks of the sucking
in of sperm by the cervix into the uterus.
The non-existence of the uterine suction power
was proved by a simple experiment, in which a plastic cervical cap
was filled with a contrast oil (radiopac) and fitted over the cervix.
The cap was left in for the whole interval between two menstrual
periods. These women had frequent sexual relations with satisfying
orgasm. Repeated X-ray pictures taken during the time when the cap
was covering the cervix, never showed any of the contrast medium
inside the cervix or in the body of the uterus. The whole contrast
medium was always in the cap.
The glands around the vaginal orifice, especially
the large Bartholin glands, have a lubricating effect. Therefore
they are located at the entrance of the vagina and produce their
mucus at the beginning of the sexual relations and not synchronously
with the orgasm. Sometimes the mucus is produced so abundantly and
makes the vulva slippery, that the female partner is inclined to
compare it with the ejaculation of the male. Occasionally the production
of fluids is so profuse that a large towel has to be spread under
the woman to prevent the bed sheets getting soiled. This convulsory
expulsion of fluids occurs always at the acme of the orgasm and
simultaneously with it. If there is the opportunity to observe
the orgasm of such women, one can see that large quantities of a
clear transparent fluid are expelled not from the vulva, but out
of the urethra in gushes. At first I thought that the bladder sphincter
had become defective by the intensity of the orgasm. Involuntary
expulsion of urine is reported in sex literature. In the cases observed
by us, the fluid was examined and it had no urinary character. I
am inclined to believe that "urine" reported to be expelled during
female orgasm
is not urine, but only secretions of the intraurethral glands correlated
with the erotogenic zone along the urethra in the anterior vaginal
wall. Moreover the profuse secretions coming out with
the orgasm have no lubricating significance, otherwise they would
be produced at the beginning of intercourse and not at the peak
of orgasm.
The intensity of the orgasm is dependent on the
area from which it is elicited. Mostly, cunnilingus leads to a more
complete orgasm and (consequent) relaxation. The deeper the relaxation
after intercourse the higher is the peak of the orgasm followed
by depression and hence the students' joke: Post coitum omne animal
triste est. The higher the climax the quicker is the reloading of
the sexual potential.
Other somatic factors help to sexually stimulate
the female partner. As was mentioned there is no spot in the
female body, from which sexual desire could not be aroused.
Some women have greater sexual desire at the ovulation time while
others at the time of the menstrual period. It may be that during
menstruation the sexual tension is higher, because the danger of
unwanted pregnancy is lessened. The woman-on-top posture is more
stimulating as the erotogenic parts come in contact better. The
angle which is formed by the erected penis and the male abdomen
has a great influence on the female orgasm.
These mere somatic causes are often overshadowed
by psychic factors, even the commonest automatic reflexes produce
sexual reactions.
It is possible to cause an orgasm merely
by using some stimulating sentence. Such a reaction follows the
laws of the unconditioned reflexes.
The erotogenic zone on the anterior wall
of the vagina can be understood only from a comparison with the
phylogenetic ancestry. In the most commonly adopted position, where
"the lady does lay on her back," the penis does not reach the urethral
part of the vaginal wall, unless the angle of the erected male organ
is very steep or if the anterior vagina is directed towards the
penis as by putting the legs of the female over the shoulders of
her partner. The contact is very close, when the intercourse
is performed more hestiarum or a la vache i.e. a posteriori. LeMon
Clark is right when he mentions that we were designed as quadrupeds.
Therefore, intercourse from the back of the woman
is the most natural one. This can be performed either in the side-to-side
posture with the male partner behind, or better still with the woman
in Sims', knee-elbow or shoulder position, the husband standing
in front of the bed. The female genitals have to be higher than
the other parts of her body. The stimulating effect of this
kind of intercourse must not be explained away as LeMon Clark does
by the melodious movements of the testicles like a knocker on the
clitoris, but is merely caused by the direct thrust of the penis
towards the urethral erotic zone. Certain it is that this area in
the anterior vaginal wall is a primary erotic zone, perhaps more
important than the clitoris, which got its erotic supremacy only
in the age of necking.
The erotising effect of coitus a posteriori is
very great, as only in this position the most stimulating parts
of both partners are brought in closest contact i.e., clitoris and
anterior vaginal wall of the wife and the sensitive parts of the
glans penis.
This short paper will, I hope, show that the
anterior wall of the vagina along the urethra is the seat of a distinct
erotogenic zone and has to be taken into account more in
the treatment of female sexual deficiency.
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Berlin, 1913
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